So, today I spent most of the day doing work around the house like gardening, cleaning, laundry and cooking. I say this because I'm not your average domestic goddess who loves doing these things on a daily basis. I loath chores like these and would rather play with the kids, watch some good quality television like "
Chowder" and actually get some work done as in online business work.
But, today was quite different when my husband came home. He wasn't his cranky "ugh, I had a bad day at work" self. No, today he came home in a pretty good mood. He did take a nap because poor thing has been working like a dog but, I called him to dinner and half way through the meal he leaned over and kissed me and said "Thank You". WHATHA?!!! I said" for what" he said "for dinner". Now, I know my husband is from
Oaxaca and loves a good home cooked
Mexican meal but, it was in this moment that I realized I had been ignoring his most basic need, the thing that shows him that I love him. Dinner and a clean house.
I'm no
Julia Child. I simply made
beans and
rice, salsa with the tomatoes from my garden ; ) and eggs with
tortillas but, to him spending all that time in the kitchen was like showing him how much I really loved him. Had I known this, I would've made beans and rice daily for the past 10 years!
Now, I've got and in... hee hee. When I really want something I'll just make beans and rice!!!!!